Lupita's Secret: From "7-Year Itch" To Newly Devoted
"After taking this course, I feel like we finally have a set of tools that we can use to help us communicate better and connect on a deeper level."
Your jaw will drop when I tell you THE must-have devotion secret that is missing in 93% of people's communication skills...
And no, its not knowing exactly the right words to say at exactly the right moment.
Or being fully “healed” of your own emotional baggage so that everything you express always lands with persuasive precision.
So what is this “devotion secret?”
Intention.
More specifically, wielding your EMOTIONAL ENERGY with intention.
It's probably the most crucial component to improving your communication and experiencing dramatic positive results in your relationships, without saying a word.
Let me explain...
Did you know that research says up to 93% of communication is non-verbal?
This includes body language, facial expressions, pauses in conversation, how we dress and present ourselves.
Non-verbal communication can be subtle or very overt, but it has a huge impact on the way we communicate with others.
And yet, so much of this communication is TOTALLY UNCONSCIOUS!
But what if it wasn’t?
Can you imagine what an amazing superpower it would be to master such a huge aspect of communication, WITH INTENTION?
That’s why somatic experiential learning practices are the foundation of my trademarked approach to healing attachment styles and communication, The MacWilliam Method™ (TMM).
TMM uses three core tools to affect significant transformations on the level of 1) cognitive reframing, 2) body activation, and 3) arts-based experientials.
When partners learn to connect creatively, outside of verbal communication (which can be fraught with mental triggers), they learn to more intimately connect on a heart level, before discussing difficult material.
To do this effectively, we apply TMM to my super-easy “HIP” Communication formula, and the results will shock you!
For example, Lupita joined my live group-coaching program, she and her husband of seven years were "stuck in a rough patch.”
They kept having the same argument in different iterations and couldn’t seem to escape a cycle of triggering each other into their defensive corners.
After taking this course, Lupita reported they were most excited by the non-verbal creative arts exercises, which allowed them to get out of their heads and appreciate each other’s creativity, in a fun way that was new and different.
By the end of the course, they were a lot more loving and accepting toward each other, and there was a renewed sense of devotion to their relationship.
“I never realized how much my need to be right was costing me, in terms of feeling close to my husband. After taking this course, I feel like we finally have a set of tools that we can use to help us communicate better and connect on a deeper level.” -Lupita, 33
Moral of the story: To move past this fear-based compulsion and step into an abundant attitude about relationships, it’s necessary to acquire communication skills that FACTOR IN the attachment styles of all parties involved, and how that impacts us non-verbally.
Tapping into your creative, life-force energy BEFORE attempting verbal communication with a partner, will connect you to in safe ways that encourage vulnerability.
And then, guess what happens?
You communicate in ways that don't put your partner on the defense.
You learn to manage your triggers in an argument.
You find a common ground in which you both feel seen and heard.
Lupita merely followed my "HIP" Communication Formula and didn’t miss a beat. And because she was consistent and practiced her new tools correctly, she finally saw real results.
The same system has also helped hundreds of my already-partnered students revitalize their relationships as well.
This step-by-step program is SO EASY and FUN to follow.
If you’re interested in learning more, then submit a quick 2 minute questionnaire below, and book a free, no-pressure consultation call with me or my team.
On the call we’ll help you understand how my 3-step “HIP” Communication Formula works, and you can see if it’s right for you 🙂.
Talk soon!
-Briana MacWilliam MPS, ATR-BC, LCAT
Licensed and Board Certified Art Therapist | Attachment Coach
A 90-day online course, to help professional singles and couples develop healthy communication skills based on attachment styles, using trauma-informed energy healing and art therapy techniques.
Are you a spiritually-minded, high-powered professional who excels in their career but struggles in your romantic relationships?
If emotional intimacy is your destination, attachment styles is the vehicle that’s going to get you there, but not without any gas…that’s where my trademarked method, and “HIP” communication formula, come in.
Communication is more than the words that we speak, it is the ENERGY that we FEEL and EXPRESS in relationships. Learning the right words without understanding how to process the emotional energy behind them, is going to keep you stuck in cyclical negative patterns in love.
Until now!
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What would be like to fearlessly voice your needs, and have a partner pull you close and say, "Thank you for telling me how to support you."
Not to mention, INSPIRING LOVE in a partner, rather than demanding, begging, or attempting to earn it from them, which allows you to experience DEVOTION beyond the fear of settling, rather than a suffocating or half-hearted COMMITMENT .
Sounds good, right?
Most coaches, counselors, and gurus will tell you that practicing emotional honesty, learning the right love language, and formulating a proper "I feel" statement will melt even the chilliest hearts...
BUT HERE'S THE PROBLEM...
If your partner has an insecure attachment style, and you try to be more emotionally honest with them, without understanding how attachment styles affect communication, they might...
Overreact and accuse you of trying to make everything about you.
Feel criticized and claim you are trying to be emotionally manipulative and controlling, simply by expressing how you feel.
Passively aggressively go along with your ideas; “Whatever, just tell me what you want and I’ll do it…” and then intentionally sabotage your success.
Walk out, give you the silent treatment, or otherwise behave in a petulant manner; “Fine. I guess I’ll just go find comfort with someone else...”
It might seem hopeless, but don’t worry, there is a reality that exists in which you get to BE your most authentic self, and live your FULLEST life, with a partner who cherishes you, just as you are.
And it involves tapping into the STRENGTHS of your attachment styles, so you can achieve Soul-Centered Security™.
My programs empower remarkable and spiritually-minded women to create
Soul-Centered Security™ and transform their love lives.
Soul-Centered Security is transforming our attachment styles through the profound lens of spirituality. It's accomplishing "secure attachment" by recognizing our spiritual curriculum, in this lifetime.
Inhabiting Soul-Centered Security means unraveling the misperceptions and negative self-stories inspired by insecure attachment patterns, and acknowledging that our relationships are profound mirrors, reflecting the internal alignment between our conscious awareness and the essence of our Spirit.
When you experience Soul-Centered Security™, your relationships radically change.
Rather than your partner shutting down and running for the hills, they pull you close and whisper "Thank you for telling me, let's work this out."
Being able to communicate your needs fearlessly, and having your partner respect you all the more for it; "I had no idea you needed that, I'm happy to know how I can support you."
Knowing just the right words to put them at ease and get them to listen to you; "That's not easy for me to hear, but I feel closer to you, now that you told me."
LONG STORY SHORT: PREDICTABLE PROBLEMS = PREDICTABLE SOLUTIONS
Learning about attachment styles shows you the problem, and my 3-step “HIP” communication formula does all the heavy lifting by providing a proven solution.
No joke, my 3-step “HIP” communication formula eliminates all the nail-biting guesswork while putting you in the driver’s seat with fearless confidence and the ability to enchant an existing or potential partner. No gimmicks, no years of draining therapy, just the promise of real, tangible transformation.
Unravel the mystery of love, and watch as your relationship blossoms into a wellspring of mutual passion, devotion, and unwavering loyalty.
It's time to break free from the chains of insecurity and experience the profound intimacy and trust you've always craved. Because you, a woman of immense capability and strength, deserve nothing less than a love story that sets your soul ablaze.
YOUR ENROLLMENT INCLUDES:
Two Live Workshops Per Month- Your purchase includes lifetime access to two, live, online workshops per month, including a creative arts workshop with hands-on tutorials, and a Q&A workshop, where you can ask me your questions in real time.
Fearless Communication Framework- 9 downloadable fill-in-the blank workbook templates with actionable recommendations and assignment prompts.
Accelerated Intimacy Scripts- Common triggers to avoid and what to say instead, including fool-proof phrases that will melt your partner’s heart and repair any arguments fast.
Somatic Awareness Audio Guides- Audio recordings that will help you recognize and release the constricted energy in the body.
Creative Exercises and Recorded Demonstrations For Heart Centered Communication
Self-Directed Lessons- Each week includes one, 90-minute self-directed lesson with pre-recorded lectures broken down into digestible snippets.
Supportive Online Community
3 Bonus presentations with experts in the field
Pay-in-Full Incentive- Get a major discount on the total value when you pay-in-full
But don’t take my word for it— watch these testimonials from folks that have taken my courses, and experienced a radical difference!
"Briana teaches to a level of detail that is just masterful... The art experientials and the visualizations add a somatic component that I haven't seen elsewhere. I 100% would recommend this course."
- Shona Keachie
"I would recommend taking this course because It has the best cost-benefit I have ever had!"
-Paula Rolim
"This is truly a game changer for me. And I would advise everyone to take this course, and go deep in these topics. Because, communication is really the most important thing in a relationship."
-Laura Ori
There are so many smart, funny, witty, sexy super achievers out there waiting impatiently for an attractive, secure partner to show up, before they'll allow themselves to start experiencing a fulfilling life.
AND UNLESS YOU KNOW THE #1 SECRET TO SOUL-SHAKING LOVE, IT'S GOING TO BE A LONG WAIT.
THE AGONY OF BEING SICK & TIRED of a dismal dating scene and digital "FOMO" culture, or a ticking biological clock that demands "You better settle, if you want kids".
WASTED ENERGY from worrying about red flags & struggling with a scarcity attitude about love, believing, "This must be the best I can do".
CONFUSION over how you can show compassion & love, without sacrificing your own needs, or what you really want in a relationship. "I'm always 'too much' or 'too intense' for partners."
TIME FEELING STUCK in "codependent" behaviors & patterns like people-pleasing, perfectionism and care-taking, that orient you towards needing to "earn love" and missing the "challenge" to prove yourself, when it’s not there. "I'm not worthy of love and success."
NOT TO MENTION THE TIME AND MONEY SPENT IN HEALING APPROACHES THAT DO NOT WORK.
Talk therapy can help you UNDERSTAND a problem better, but that doesn’t mean you’ll FEEL or DO anything differently. Otherwise, you’d probably already be in the relationship of your dreams!
This leads to a "DOUBLE TROUBLE" issue, which is when you start feeling ANXIOUS about how anxious you are, and that’s all your therapist seems to want to talk about, while charging by the hour.
Attachment wounds are deep, emotional, energetic blockages. You cannot THINK your way around them, you have to FEEL your way through!
AFTER EXPERIENCING MY TRADEMARKED METHOD FOR COURAGEOUS COMMUNICATION...
You INHABIT your body with pleasure, ease and receptivity.
You ATTRACT healthier partners.
You STOP telling old, painful stories and building your identity around them.
You EMBRACE an attitude of compassion towards yourself and others.
You START living a life that lights you on fire, from your crown to your toes!
