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Step 1: Three Conflict Styles and How To Recognize them
Step 2: End Mixed Signals and Avoid Triggers + What To Say Instead
Step 3: From Angry to Adoring: Transform Your Conflict Blueprint
Step 4: Inspire Devotion With Compassionate Communication
Step 5: From Confused to Clear: Find Your Voice & Get Your Needs Met
Step 6: Toxic Communications: How to Spot and Avoid Them
Step 7: Creative Ways to Foster Emotional Safety & Intimacy
Step 8: Achieving Long-Term Compatibility With Healthy Boundaries
Step 9: Making Love Last: Building Your Relationship Love Map
-Lucia Engel
"I recommend anything that Briana puts out. You just get light bulb moment after light bulb moment, that just sets you free!"
-Natalie Stillwell
Communication is more than the words that we speak, it is the ENERGY that we FEEL and EXPRESS in relationships. Learning the right words without understanding how to process the emotional energy behind them, is going to keep you stuck in cyclical negative patterns in love.
Until now!
The Success-Driven Heartbreak Cycle™ is a paradoxical loop in which highly accomplished individuals find that the very traits driving their professional success become obstacles in their love lives.
Rooted in early attachment wounds, these strengths often arise from a deep-seated need to earn love, inadvertently creating an energetic barrier that keeps genuine emotional connection just out of reach.
This cycle traps people in a frustrating pattern of achieving great success in work while struggling to find and maintain fulfilling relationships.
The Unending Time Crunch: Overloaded schedules leave little room for quality communication, limiting the depth and openness of connection with partners.
Battling with Stress: High-pressure environments with big risks and rewards can create mental and physical fatigue, making it difficult to engage in clear and empathetic communication, or to know and understand what you are really feeling or needing!
Emotional Armor: Trying to meet the professional demands of your job, plus the emotional demands of your relationship can create resentment and hinder emotional availability, creating barriers to authentic expression and honest conversations.
Power Struggles: Imbalanced success levels combined with mismatched attachment styles, can cause painful power dynamics that make it emotionally unsafe to communicate openly, leading to need suppression, distrust, and misunderstandings.
Vulnerability Hesitation: Fear of being perceived as weak or “dropping the ball” can restrict successful professionals from fully expressing their emotions, as well as prevents them from experiencing relaxation and sensual pleasures in their intimate relationships.
What would be like to fearlessly voice your needs, and have a partner pull you close and say, "Thank you for telling me how to support you."
Not to mention, INSPIRING LOVE in a partner, rather than demanding, begging, or attempting to earn it from them, which allows you to experience DEVOTION beyond the fear of settling, rather than a suffocating or half-hearted COMMITMENT .
Sounds good, right?
Overreact and accuse you of trying to make everything about you.
Feel criticized and claim you are trying to be emotionally manipulative and controlling, simply by expressing how you feel.
Passively aggressively go along with your ideas; “Whatever, just tell me what you want and I’ll do it…” and then intentionally sabotage your success.
Walk out, give you the silent treatment, or otherwise behave in a petulant manner; “Fine. I guess I’ll just go find comfort with someone else...”
Soul-Centered Security™ is transforming our attachment styles through the profound lens of spirituality. It's accomplishing "secure attachment" by recognizing our spiritual curriculum, in this lifetime.
Inhabiting Soul-Centered Security means unraveling the misperceptions and negative self-stories inspired by insecure attachment patterns, and acknowledging that our relationships are profound mirrors, reflecting the internal alignment between our conscious awareness and the essence of our Spirit.
As a child of divorce, my family lived on the edge of poverty, and I became a high achiever to compensate. But eventually, my relationship struggles tore down everything I’d accomplished, and I wound up a divorced, single mom.
Then, both my parents and my brother were diagnosed with serious, chronic illnesses. And the new partner I had fallen madly in love with couldn’t prioritize me or stay faithful. And when he left, I miscarried what would’ve been my second child.
I decided to dive straight down into my demons, and write a book about attachment and grief, while acquiring certifications in Reiki Healing, EFT Tapping, and trauma-informed somatic therapy. Writing the book and delving into energy healing, emboldened me to shed my shame, and learned how to move from an insecure to a secure attachment style!
This led to creating the curriculum for my online courses and building a community for support. Much to my delight, both caught fire, and I’ve never looked back!
No joke, my 3-step “HIP” communication formula eliminates all the nail-biting guesswork while putting you in the driver’s seat with fearless confidence and the ability to enchant an existing or potential partner. And without years of talk therapy, one-off retreats, or “fake it ‘til you make it” gimmicks that don’t work in the long run.
Phase 1 guides participants from being led by fear towards a growth in awareness, addressing their need for clarity and struggles with blame, to foster healing and effective communication in repairing conflicts.
Struggling with push-pull dynamics to stopping a spiral before it starts.
Feeling isolated and abandoned to connected and understood.
Begging after approval to self-validating and empowered.
Step 1: Three Conflict Styles and How To Recognize them
How attachment styles drive conflict through activating and deactivating strategies
Three most common conflict styles based on attachment pairings
Self assessment and somatic-informed art therapy technique to establish safety in the body
Step 2: End Mixed Signals and Avoid Triggers + What To Say Instead
Identify common triggers and how they manifest in the body
Decode mixed signals and diffuse triggers with accelerated intimacy scripts
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to recognize triggers as unmet emotional needs, and how to voice them
Step 3: From Angry to Adoring: Transform Your Conflict Blueprint
Identify when a problem requires conflict management vs conflict resolution
Learn the difference between authentic emotional expression and critical evaluations
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to foster intimacy and attunement as a couple
Phase 2, led by humility and curiosity, challenges participants to embrace self-validation and navigate struggles with boundaries, fostering growth through skill-building in compassionate and reciprocal communication.
Feeling tongue tied and repressed, to expressing yourself with confidence and authenticity.
Feeling emotionally confused about your needs to, vocalizing them clearly, while inspiring a partner to satisfy them.
Feeling undermined or like a burden, to letting go of conditions of worth, and embracing your personal authority.
Step 4: Inspire Devotion With Compassionate Communication
You will learn 3 Keys to compassionate communication
How to use "safe" and "soft" strategies in communication, based on attachment style
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to practice responsiveness and mirroring by establishing a head-heart connection
Step 5: From Confused to Clear: Find Your Voice & Get Your Needs Met
Identify your deepest needs and the boundaries that express them
Communicate needs effectively using positive action language
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to open up the heart chakra and listen with the body
Step 6: Toxic Communications: How to Spot and Avoid Them
How to identify toxic communications and set your boundaries
Three types of empathy and how to foster your sensitivity without self-abandonment
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to release negative, energetic hooks and invite healthy relationships
Lesley was a single mom committed to looking after her three kids for years when she stumbled upon my program. She was just starting to explore a relationship with someone but had been out of practice for more than two decades. In our time together, she experienced significant insights and profound shifts, around learning to love herself first and foremost.
A word from Lesley…“I think this kind of work is the most important thing we can possibly be doing first of all for ourselves, for our partners, and for our children. This is the kind of thing that saves relationships and brings people together. When I look at what’s going on in the rest of the world, we need way more of this.”
Phase 3, led by a spirit of generosity, guides students through a journey of trusting their skills and embracing patience, as they cultivate growth in intimacy and establish healthy boundaries, fostering a sense of freedom and security in love as they envision a future together, defining their most important values and priorities.
Feeling confused or scared to assert your boundaries, to clearly defining them and advocating for yourself with ease.
Struggling with power struggles in the relationship, to experiencing reciprocal care and generosity with deepening intimacy.
Fears of boredom and fading emotional and sexual chemistry, to feeling excited again and deeply attracted to your partner.
Step 7: Creative Ways to Foster Emotional Safety & Intimacy
Connecting to your body, your boundaries, and finding emotional safety
Common patterns of emotional and energetic "armoring" in the body
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to alchemize your energetic armoring and open up to shared connection
Step 8: Achieving Long-Term Compatibility With Healthy Boundaries
Further clarifying your boundaries for long-term partnership
A relationship compatibility assessment of shared values and priorities
Somatic-informed art therapy technique to explore energetic boundaries
Step 9: Making Love Last: Building Your Relationship Love Map
Develop your relationship love map and vision board.
Complete your "connection codex" and testament to your relationship, exchanging it with a partner.
Self-Assessment of your "Erotic Blueprints" and a guest presentation on polarity in relationships.
Sara had come to an impasse in personal development, when arriving at The Courageous Communicator Program. Establishing a safe space in the body and exploring important themes through the art therapy techniques, were among the most impactful aspects of the program. This allowed Sara to "shine through" with transformative results in relationships.
A word from Sara…“It's so good. Everything you discover about yourself....and about being able to approach a variety of other people with safe and soft strategies, it's amazing. Those are big values for me.”
Kyle Benson, Intentionally Intimate Relationship Coach
Kyle Benson, a love and intimacy coach, shares over 40 years of research from The Gottman Inistitute on secure partnership dynamics and conflict management. Featured in major outlets like Business Insider and HuffPost, Kyle's evidence-based approach provides practical tools for sustaining long-term relationships, helping you move from theory to practice seamlessly.
Guy Shahar, Originator of Tantra Speed Date®
Guy Shahar, Co-Founder of The Tantra Institute and creator of Tantra Speed Date®, is a Level 5 Elite Certified Tantra Educator with diverse expertise including Tantra and BDSM. His work focuses on bridging the gap between masculine and feminine energies, facilitating over 500 events globally. Featured in major media, Guy's experience and personal journey enrich his teachings on intimacy and sexuality, making him a sought-after speaker and coach in New York and worldwide.
Sacha Fossa, Sexual Wellness Coach
Sacha Fossa, a sexual wellness coach and educator with an MA in Health, Arts & Sciences, offers insights into The Five Erotic Blueprints™. As an Advanced Certified Tantric Educator and Erotic Blueprint Coach™, she aims to enhance your intimate life, whether partnered or single, through her extensive expertise in holistic healing arts.
Mary's journey with our program reveals a profound transformation. Initially, emotions felt taboo, but through our unique art therapy sessions, she found a powerful and continuing source of healing. This process of drawing and exploring her emotions was a revelation, enabling her to understand her experiences of being misunderstood, judged, and undervalued.
The discovery of emotional wounding and its impact was eye-opening for her. Mary found a path to wholeness, a journey she describes as invaluable, saying, "It's the best thing I think I've ever done for myself."
You INHABIT your body with pleasure, ease and receptivity.
You ATTRACT healthier partners.
You STOP telling old, painful stories and building your identity around them.
You EMBRACE an attitude of compassion towards yourself and others.
You START living a life that lights you on fire, from your crown to your toes!
It’s a lifetime-access roadmap, that holds your hand through the body-activating, experiential techniques that are required to shift your attachment style, and experience a SECURE and LOVING relationship with improved communication.
If you are not satisfied with your purchase, contact us at support@brianamacwilliam.com within 14 days of your purchase and we will refund your money, no questions asked.