

AS A SPICE OF LIFER, YOU MAY STRUGGLE WITH...
💫 Craving closeness one moment and needing to bolt the next, leaving you and your partner confused.
💫 Feeling drawn to emotionally intense or chaotic connections, even when you know they are not good for you.
💫 Testing people to see if they will stay, then feeling ashamed or guilty when things blow up.
💫 Overanalyzing every mixed signal, replaying conversations, and wondering if you are “too much” or “not enough.”
💫 Dissociating, spacing out, or going numb when conflict hits, then later blaming yourself for not speaking up.


⭐ The “Tapping Toolkit” helps you calm your body in real time so you can stay present with big feelings instead of spiraling into panic, shutdown, or dissociation.
⭐ “Secure in the Spark” teaches you how to pace chemistry, honor your sensitivity, and stay grounded when you feel both drawn in and scared of getting hurt.
⭐ “Disorganized Attachment 101” takes you all the way, helping you integrate both your anxious and avoidant sides into a secure, stable, spiritually aligned way of loving. This is the foundational framework that underlies everything else I teach.
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This robust coaching curriculum walks you through a fun and creative 3-phase transformational process, over the course of 7 steps, to help you adopt a more secure attachment style.
Even if you skim over the lectures and the workbook, the experiential practices are powerful enough to start feeling increased attachment security, in as little as 7 weeks!

Phase 1: Exploring
IDENTIFY your starting point by mapping how push-pull patterns, trauma bonds, and nervous system responses show up in your love life.
BUILD your emotional vocabulary with art-based and somatic exercises.
END BOUNDARY VIOLATIONS with 5 archetypes for emotional resilience.
RECOGNIZE the difference between intuition, anxiety, and trauma reenactment, so you stop mistaking familiar intensity for genuine safety.

Phase 2: Discovering
HONOR your intensity by reclaiming the three core strengths of the Spice of Lifer: depth, passion, and powerful intuition.
ESCAPE BLAME GAMES by calling out toxic communication, and debunking 3 gaslighting myths about emotional responsibility.
REGULATE AND REPAIR with guided visualizations and expressive arts practices that teach your body a new template for connection, rather than bracing for the next crash.

Phase 3: Loving
CLARIFY 12 dimensions of soulful compatibility in love, so you can tell the difference between chemistry that heals and chemistry that harms.
SCRIPT 2 HIGH IMPACT core belief statements that move you from “I am too much or not enough” to “My depth is a gift that deserves safe, consistent love.”
CREATE A FOCUS WHEEL and STOP automatic negative thinking for good.
OPEN YOUR HEART with a guided visualization and "active imagination" technique that will lead to lasting changes in love.
This is not a fantasy; it is the transformation waiting for you when you have a roadmap that speaks to both your sensitivity and your power.

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