Cultivating a secure relationship doesn't have to be hard and you don't have to do it alone!
ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE WITH...
I help successful and spiritually-minded individuals feel more confident and secure so they can attract and keep loving, soul-centered relationships without compromising their values, priorities, or ambitions.
What Brings You Here?
LET ME GUESS...
Your partner, who was once a wellspring of love and attention, is now distant and elusive.
Or maybe they are intermittently warm, then cold, leaving you guessing and walking on eggshells.
You find yourself seeking validation from others and struggling to trust your own instincts.
Perhaps you find yourself constantly in the role of the 'rescuer' in your relationships, endlessly working to save a partner who seems persistently unhappy or unfulfilled.
You're tired of feeling confused and uncertain in your relationships, desperate for a sense of certainty and direction.
You’re also feeling frustrated and hopeless about the time and money you might’ve spent on self-help and therapy, but none of it has led to significant changes in your love life.
This can leave even the most confident and successful person doubting their judgment, questioning their desirability, and feeling emotionally confused.
BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY!
PICTURE A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU CAN COMMUNICATE YOUR NEEDS FEARLESSLY, AND YOUR PARTNER RESPONDS WITH UNDERSTANDING, LOVE, AND RESPECT.
Wouldn't you love to have an honest partner whose actions match up with their words? Someone who is wildly passionate about your relationship and prioritizes you in their life?
It's all possible for you!
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You're a great catch. You're successful, driven, and intelligent. You're a true force to be reckoned with, a person of ambition, drive, and unwavering determination.
You've cracked the code to achieving professional success, and know it's time to unlock the secrets to building fulfilling and soul-nourishing connections.
But when it comes to the enigmatic world of love and relationships, you find yourself wrestling with a confusing maze of mixed signals.
The stress, the confusion, the emotional rollercoaster - it often leaves you feeling disheartened, frustrated, and emotionally drained.
With private coaching support you will feel more secure and confident in relationships, and experience the kind of satisfying love life you desire!
"For the first time in my life, I feel secure... Briana has a much deeper understanding of attachment styles than most of the renowned experts have." ~Kairi
"This is the most helpful thing. It's super powerful, and I'm someone that's been in therapy for 4 years... just do it!" ~Stacy De La Rosa
“After only 3 sessions with Briana, I cried multiple times for the scared little girl in me. I actually had a feeling that I matter and that I am loved." ~Fatima
What if I told you that you're not the problem? What if the issue isn't a lack of effort, commitment, or intelligence on your part, but rather an insecure attachment style that's interfering with clear and authentic communication in your relationship?
Your attachment style is an instinctual blueprint that acts as a compass for how much closeness or space you desire when it comes to emotional intimacy. It affects you on the level of...
The deepest recesses of your survival brain
The stimulation of your nervous system
Your genetic inheritance
Naturally-occurring neurotransmitters
But the brain has “plasticity”—meaning you can shift your attachment style!
THE #1 SECRET TO
IS DECODING YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLES & FOSTERING SOUL-CENTERED SECURITY™
My trademarked approach empowers remarkable individuals to create Soul-Centered Security™ and transform their love lives.
Soul-Centered Security™ is transforming our attachment styles through the profound lens of spirituality. It's accomplishing "secure attachment" by recognizing our spiritual curriculum, in this lifetime.
Inhabiting Soul-Centered Security™ means unraveling the misperceptions and negative self-stories inspired by insecure attachment patterns, and acknowledging that our relationships are profound mirrors, reflecting the internal alignment between our conscious awareness and the essence of our Spirit.
The amazing clients I work with believe that relationships are a sacred dance, in which partners harmonize their energies, nurture their souls, and create a divine connection.
But when we feel confused and struggle to trust our own intuition and instincts, our love light and radiance feels dampened with self-doubt and suspicion.
IT'S TIME TO REWRITE THE STORY OF YOUR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS AND EXPERIENCE THE DEEP CONNECTIONS YOU DESERVE!
Check out these success stories!
“I am astounded by Briana’s grasp of attachment. This comes from someone (albeit a layman) who has read voraciously on the subject for 7 years, now. There is insight and detailed explanations with individual sessions, that simply can’t be found anywhere else… The level of clarity is beyond anything I could’ve anticipated.”
-Jim Lewandowski, 42
“I can’t tell you what a BIG difference it made to understand why and how my insecurities were convincing me I needed explanations from men that just did not deserve my energy. Only 6 sessions with Briana cleared up a lifetime of confusion around certain family dynamics that always perplexed me. The best part is the eperientials, though. The MacWilliam Method cuts through the BS quickly and effectively. Just make sure you’re ready!”
-Elizabeth Zhou, 34
“Briana’s work has clarified so many things for me. Especially with emotional and physical boundaries. I have a history of trauma, and this felt like a very clear and creative way to address my confusion around boundaries. Thank you, Briana!”
Mandi Cole, 33
What Makes My Approach Different?
I HELP INDIVIDUALS STRUGGLING WITH INSECURE ATTACHMENT GO FROM SELF-DOUBTING TO SELF-SOVEREIGN, WITH MY UNIQUE SERVICE:
The MacWilliam Method™ (TMM) is a service that utilizes a psycho-spiritual approach to applying creative arts interventions, through the framework of attachment theory. TMM is informed by evidence-based practices in attachment and trauma research but is rooted in creative arts interventions and somatic approaches to energy healing, as the primary modalities.
TMM is composed of three principal tools to address mind, body, and spirit:
COGNITIVE REFRAMING
Identify and heal the negative, limiting beliefs that cause relationship insecurities, so that you are finally open to receiving the love you want.
BODY ACTIVATION
Release anxious and doubtful energy that is stored up in your body as you build new neural networks that make you feel unstoppable in love.
EXPERIENTIAL MODALITIES
Amplify your attractive energy as you authentically express yourself with creativity and magnetizing charisma that attracts your soul-shaking partner.
WHY LISTEN TO ME?
After struggling with insecure attachment in the dating scene as a divorced, single mom, I learned how to rewrite my relationship scripts and experience more Soul-Centered Security™, which attracted a loving and secure partner into my life.
My goal is to help you unlock your inner radiance and spiritual wisdom through healing attachment wounds and embracing soul-centered connections.
Private coaching is a unique and individualized experience intended to help you clear up unnecessary confusion and help you take the first step towards experiencing a truly loving and conscientious relationship.
WHAT WE WILL DO...
Outline Your Objectives: We'll start by clearly defining your relationship goals. This ensures every moment we spend together is aligned with what you truly want to accomplish.
Experiential Exercises & Energy Healing: Employing tools like Reiki, and trauma-informed somatic therapy, we'll address not just your mind, but also your emotional and spiritual well-being—particularly helpful in instances of trauma.
Creativity Development: We'll make use of creative arts interventions and authentic movement exercises that not only offer novel perspectives but also help recover your inner child.
Interactive Scripting: I'll guide you in crafting personalized scripts for EFT Tapping and Focus Wheel exercises, to reframe limiting beliefs and negative thoughts.
Connect with Spirit Guides or Ancestors: Elevate your spiritual grounding through guided visualizations that connect you to your Higher Self or even ancestors and spirit guides.
Parts Work and Inner Child Healing: This multi-dimensional approach aids in reconciling conflicting feelings and beliefs, crucial for holistic well-being.
WHAT WE WON'T DO...
Venting and Double Troubles: Our time won't be consumed by venting or mutual problem-sharing that doesn't serve your growth.
Just Talk: If you're looking for a session that only involves talking for an hour, this isn't it. We're about transformation, not just talk.
Offer Quick Fixes: True transformation takes time. We won't chase after quick fixes that don't offer long-term solutions.
AFTER WORKING WITH ME, YOU’LL HAVE THE TOOLS TO GO FROM SUPPRESSING YOUR NEEDS, TO VOICING THEM WITH CONFIDENCE...
Without fear of your partner running away or emotionally punishing you.
No more begging after breadcrumbs!
Private coaching will help put you on the fast track to FEELING INDEPENDENTLY VITAL AND PASSIONATE, with COMPLETE CONFIDENCE IN YOUR PARTNER’S LOYALTY, because you know you have their rapt attention (the type of relentless devotion you only see in romance novels and Hollywood movies).
Imagine what would happen if instead of WAITING HOURS, DAYS OR WEEKS for a return text or phone call, you started GETTING A RESPONSE RIGHT AWAY, from someone who not only responds to you, but also initiates contact with you.
Get ready to CREATE EXCITING PLANS FOR THE FUTURE & watch your partner make them happen as soon as possible, because they are interested in experiencing deeper levels of intimacy with heartfelt, long-term commitment with YOU!
What happens in a private session?
Here are some examples of what it's like to work with me privately.
"How can I trust if love is genuine or manipulative?"
In her adult relationships, she finds it difficult to provide the affection or words of affirmation that her partners desire, because it's hard for her to discern when bids for connection stem from genuine love and regard, or manipulative intentions. By the ended of the call she was “calm, fascinated, and impressed” with what she experienced, and ended the call feeling hopeful for the future.
"How do I get over my cheating ex?"
Lonnie had done a lot of personal healing work after her long-time, on-again-off-again boyfriend had cheated on her. Despite the anger and hurt she felt, she still found herself fantasizing about getting back together with him. In this call, Lonnie was able to glean some guidance and wisdom from her guardian angel. By the end, she was in tears, and surprised by how much better she felt!
"How do I reduce dating anxiety as a single mom?"
Amelia shares her experience of dialoguing with her parts to reduce dating anxiety, as a single mom of three teenage children. By the end of our exploration, Amelia has new ideas about what would help her move forward with dating logistics, and also an unexpected insight into the impact that complicated grief may have on her “mom guilt” after losing her mother to cancer.
Success stories from clients that have seen transformative results!
THE GOOD NEWS IS, THE TOOLS ARE RELATIVELY SIMPLE, AND THE MOST CRUCIAL INFORMATION YOU WILL NEED ALREADY EXISTS INSIDE YOU!
Negative energy and defensive patterning that keep you stuck in a confusion cycle around attachment styles CAN be transformed and healed so that you can RELAX into the brightest luminescence that is your spirit. It is a process that will allow you to step into a state of being on FIYAH about life, and share that brilliance with a stars-in-their-eyes lover.
A LOVE THAT IS PASSIONATE AND SECURE, IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU!
More than that, it’s even probable, once you decide to living nothing less than a next-level life, and committing to the processes that will set you on that path.
Not sure? Book an initial, 30-minute consultation!
With the focused attention and individualized guidance and support of private coaching, you can overcome your insecurities and quickly cut through the overwhelm, while getting laser-focused on building up your self-confidence, and developing the skills and mindset necessary for thriving in your love life.
"FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE, I FEEL SECURE."
Prepare to be inspired by Kairi's remarkable story of how she found an incredible partner who became her unwavering rock in the midst of life's storms.
Kairi says, "For the first time in my life, I feel secure...Briana has a much deeper understanding of attachment styles than most of the renowned experts have."
"OH MY GOD, THE MONEY IS SO WORTH IT."
Daina gained insight into what the issues had been in her family background that was affecting her current 'anxious-avoidant trap' relationship, as well as gained clarity around how to engage with her own children.
She made tremendous progress in only 4 months, as compared to the previous 2.5 years she had spent in counseling!
Daina says, "I’d been in counseling for about 2.5 years, and had gotten stuck... Having a way to get through the anxious jumbly mess has been very helpful for me."
"IT'S HEALING. IT'S LIFE-GIVING."
A divorced, single dad, Joe shares his appreciation for the compassionate and hopeful message my mission conveys, as well as some of the artwork he created through the experiential exercises.
Joe says, "There's a way that you approach disorganized attachment when you categorize it as a “Spice of Lifer” that is…it's healing. It's life giving. It's not that you're this disconnected freak that nobody's gonna ever understand. You're not lost out there. It's like, no. This is just this is part of your story and there's ways to work with this in healthy, functional, good ways."
"I'M HOPEFUL THINGS WILL GET BETTER."
Having tried countless methods in her pursuit of healing, Tina had almost given up. She had read books, taken courses, and sought advice from others, but nothing seemed to truly help. That's what makes her journey so exceptional and why she recommends it with heartfelt sincerity. It's a rare opportunity to experience genuine transformation.
She never imagined she could reach this point of growth and healing. “Nothing really helped me... I would never have thought that I could do this. Now I'm very, very hopeful that things will get much better."
"IT WAS A GATEWAY TO UNDERSTANDING."
What Laura sought wasn't just a quick fix; she craved a deep, meaningful connection with her truest self. Yet, despite her knowledge, she was caught in a cycle of anxiety-driven attachment that felt impossible to break. That is, until she discovered my method. We moved beyond the surface, grounding her so profoundly that she could finally hear—and trust—her own inner wisdom.
She shares, "I learned a lot about myself, and the guided imagery became a portal into a new understanding of who I am. The lessons I was grappling with found permanent roots inside me, thanks to the meditation and visioning exercises."
WHAT IS THE INVESTMENT?
"I Want Private Coaching."
Special package discounts and payment plans available.Sliding scale option available for Canadian residents.
"I Want Psychotherapy."
In-network options available for New York residents, who have Aetna or Cigna insurance; BOOK A CONSULTATION to inquire. Super-bills provided for out-of-network coverage.
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FAQs Answered
What is the difference between coaching and psychotherapy?
While I am a licensed and board-certified psychotherapist, if you are interested in a coaching package, there are some nuances to consider in the work that we do.
Psychotherapy provides short-term or long-term treatment in an empathic holding environment. The therapist generally follows the impulses and inclinations of the client, in guiding the therapeutic process and establishing a rapport. Depending on the therapist’s theoretical orientation, emotional changes and insight occur through the evolution of the therapeutic relationship. Techniques and psycho-education may be offered and explored, but it is secondary to the relationship being established between practitioner and client. For many individuals that struggle with insecure attachment, psychotherapy is truly the first and best step for them. Psychotherapy can also be covered under your insurance. If you are interested in this option, please book a consultation call to discuss.
Private coaching is short-term and goal oriented. In my role as a coach, I deliver techniques for you to use independently or in supplementation to psychotherapy. Our sessions will be structured and directive, built upon my unique, psychospiritual approach The MacWilliam Method (TM). My guidance is offered through the filters of psychological understanding, but also energy healing practices. The relationship that is developed is similar to short-term mentorship. There is also a focus on skill building with certain modalities and techniques, as needed, such as cognitive reframing, guided visualization, "parts" work and inner child healing, creative arts directives, scripting and EFT Tapping, Reiki healing, exercises for somatic awareness and nervous system regulation, and so on. If longer-term treatment is indicated, I will also make those recommendations and referrals, after our time has ended.
Do you offer ongoing psychotherapy?
At this time, I have a limited number of slots available for psychotherapy clients. The type of psychotherapy I offer is called creative arts therapies, with a focus in art therapy, specifically. However, my additional certifications in trauma-informed somatic therapy, hypnotherapy, EFT Tapping, Internal Family Systems Theory, and Reiki healing also inform the quality of the therapeutic sessions.
I am licensed to practice in the state of New York, which means you would need to be a New York resident to receive psychotherapy services. I am in-network with Cigna and Aetna, however, there are several other insurance companies that will reimburse for out-of-network coverage, for working with an LCAT. I would advise contacting your insurance company to confirm coverage, if this is something you would like to explore. Then, you may contact us at support@brianamacwilliam.com, to inquire.
What if I sign up but then change my mind?
There are no refunds offered for private coaching packages, or out-of-network psychotherapy session packages. If you have questions before purchasing, please book a consultation call, or you may contact us at support@brianamacwilliam.com.
How frequently do you offer sessions, and when do they expire?
When you purchase a coaching package, you have the option to book your sessions once a week, or once or twice per month. You have up to 12 months to redeem your purchased sessions.
What If I Have Questions?
If you have questions, please book a consultation call, or contact us at support@brianamacwilliam.com. Please allow up to 48 hours for a response.